over the dam

That issue has gone under the bridge, under the next bridge, over the next dam and is gone. -Nick Saban (head football coach, University of Alabama)

Throughout my 23 short years of life, I have come to find out that sometimes you have to just let things go and forgive. More than likely you cannot change what has happened so why stress over it? If you really think about it, you are not forgiven until you have forgave.